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How the Budget Cuts Have Impacted My Family

Today’s guest post is from our newly minted super hero – Ms. Angie in San Diego. Angie is a senior at UCSD and a single mother to a little girl. After years of hardship, and super-human determination, a college degree is finally in sight for her. What keeps her up at night is not celebrating her collegiate accomplishments, but her own worries of whether or not her family will be homeless before she is able to graduate. As reported in our previous post, our state is in danger of completely losing our safety net programs, including CalWORKS and Healthy Families. Read Angie’s story to learn how these program cuts will directly effect her family and countless other “little stories” in our communities.

Thank you, Angie, for the honor of sharing your story with our readers. You are AMAZING.


Before I went back to school, I was working full time. I was working nights, for just above minimum wage. During the day I spent all of my time raising my daughter. Child care was not a financial possibility, and I can never repay my sister for watching my little girl during those long nights. Diapers were expensive, and those of us with young kids would fight over the marked down open packs of diapers. During those years I got further and further into debt, since my paycheck rarely covered basic needs. It was then that I decided to go back to school. I debated it for months, worrying about the financial impact, the emotional impact on my self esteem that I knew would suffer tremendously if I went on State Aid. Welfare. Welfare. We now call it “State Aid”, we call Food Stamps “EBT Cards”, but the ego and self-esteem destroyers remain the same. Spending hours in the offices, one line after another, waiting, waiting, waiting to be called to a window, a room. Paperwork in triplicate, documentation, documentation, fingerprinting, and all of the disdain that comes with it from the workers behind the glass, behind the partition, behind the door at the “house visits”, which are house inspections, looking into every drawer and pantry of your life.

I am currently almost done with school. I have worked part-time the entire time I was going to school, while also receiving Welfare. Even though there were many times I felt like quitting after having to take time off of either work or school to meet with a worker or fill out more paperwork, I hung in there. There were times when I thought, “This would be easier if I just quit school, got a regular job and stayed paycheck to paycheck forever. I can’t handle the constant negotiation and renegotiation to trying to figure out the right thing to say or do to make it with the Welfare office.”

But I held on, going on and off herbal and medical anti-depressants, ranting to an empty house and at the end of the month an empty fridge. I will have my BA at the end of the summer, and from that point on be able to forever take care of my family without any extra help. That is, if I can make it through these budget cuts. I dropped some of my classes over this last year because of cancer in my family. We lost two very loved and very much missed members of my family with in a year of each other. I would not wish cancer on my worst enemy. It was the most horrific thing I have ever been witness to, and to have to go through it all again so soon almost broke my spirit. I do not regret taking the time off since the precious time I spent with my Aunt and then her eldest daughter is something I could never replace. However, it has left me with no Financial Aid, and my hours at work are down to nothing.

If these budget cuts go through, my family will most likely be cut, since we have been on Welfare for a while now. Taking away CalWorks leaves us in dire straights. I cannot find a job that will work with the hours I need, and absolutely cannot afford childcare. We don’t receive a lot, only $286.00 a month in cash, but I have managed to make it stretch to keep us afloat. Without that money, we will be homeless. I do my best to make the Food Stamp money last as well, but fresh fruit and veggies are a beginning of the month luxury. It breaks my heart to hear my daughter proudly tell me that her friends were so nice to give her the extra food left over from their lunches. My guts wrench when she looks me in the eyes and says, “Pasta again mom? I don’t want to eat pasta again”, after the third or fourth time this week. The stress of the budget cuts keep me up at night, wondering if we will make it until the cuts go through. Wondering how we will survive if they actually do go through. We are borderline homeless now. Without that little bit of help…

I only need it for a few more months, but I know there are others that need more time. San Diego is a very expensive place to live, and most people have no extra money, let alone the money to move.  These cuts mean real things to real people, and this truly is the last thing we need in this economy. So many of us are barely surviving, why do you want to send us families to the streets?


Dear Readers:  Please take a moment to share your thoughts with Ms. Angie by posting a comment below.


San Diego: Join The X-Man on May 31st

Via Xavier The X-Man

Via Xavier The X-Man

Mark your calendars! If you are in the San Diego Area, please be sure to listen to Xavier The X-Man’s radio show on Magic 92.5 FM . Local DJ celebrity, Xavier The X-Man, is dedicating his MAY 31st Sunday Morning Menudo event to helping us drum up diaper donations for local San Diego agencies serving homeless and very low-income families. Bring the kids, sample some menudo, and check out some AMAZING cars. This is a FREE event. Send us a photo of your cutie donating diapers or post via Flickr and tag it “HelpAMotherOut.org.”

You can read more about the event by visiting our San Diego donation page here and also by visiting Xavier’s website. And remember, if you have ties to the local community but can’t make this event, you can always show some local love by CLICKING through to the San Diego AMAZON.COM wishlist of your choice (top right hand column of our website).

LISTEN UP: Between now and MAY 31st, you just might hear a plug out about HAMO, and a radio interview with Alicia – our local gal, on Xavier The X-Man’s show. Out of area peeps you can also listen to him on the Internet by visiting MAGIC 92.5 FM.

BIG THANKS for the LOVE to Xavier, and everyone at MAGIC 92.5 FM, for the generosity  you are showing to our state-wide campaign and the San Diego area community.

Are we living in the dust bowl days?


"Migrant Mother" - Dorothea Lange

California has been in the international limelight because of the Sacramento tent city – our modern day Hooverville, if you will. Since it was dismantled national media outlets have gone home (tip: you can still find homeless folks camping elsewhere, if you know the right people and have the guts to go in).  But now that our state’s famous now-dismantled Hooverville has been forgotten by the Today Show, what happens next on the national media stage?

This Canadian article notes “grim days” for U.S. towns: foreclosures, ghost towns springing up, childhood poverty, and new (and atypical) residents in RV parks. Likewise, there are other international reports of American kids going to bed hungry. Then there are the local news reports: in the Central Valley things appear to be really bad, San Diego Unified can count 900 homeless students in their district, Imperial County clocks the highest national jobless rate at 25-percent. These are bits and pieces of international and local news sources. Where is the national media attention on rising family homelessness and childhood poverty? If you come across anything send your tips to us so we can check it out.

What’s the real scoop in your area? From where you are (even if you live out of state), what do you see? Are these our dust bowl days?

SNAP to it, San Diego

snapStruggling families all around our state have it tough. Due to the recent surge in applicants, San Diego County officials are working on making the federally-funded food stamp, or SNAP, application process easier.

According to the San Diego Union-Tribune:

The supervisors’ letter to their board colleagues notes that a “tidal wave of applicants” has struck the county in recent months because of the recession and rising unemployment.

San Diego County has been the lowest-enrolled major metropolitan area in the country for years, signing up less than one-third of residents eligible for food stamps, a national study shows…

…Critics say San Diego County makes it unnecessarily difficult to apply for and collect food stamps, in part because caseloads are so high and recipients are reluctant to subject themselves to home searches.

County officials say the home calls are needed to prevent fraud and are conducted only when caseworkers suspect that applicants have mischaracterized their eligibility.

Per this article, the county recently laid off 29 county employees in February. Of those laid off, 18 worked at the agency in charge of food stamps.